“The Treasure in Your Home,” #4 by Pr. Mark H. Hein

July 8th, 2009 Post by

(This is the next post in our regular columnSpiritual Headship in the Church and Home“)

Before beginning this latest installment in our series on spiritual headship, I want to apologize for how long it has been since my last post. Without getting into details, I have had a number of health related “challenges.” Thanks be to God that I am doing much better and I rejoice in the opportunity to move forward with this series. The topic and issue at hand could not be more important or timely. In fact, you may want to reread the previous articles as a review of what has already been covered. See the “Related Posts” section in the right sidebar while reading this post to see all four articles.



We have been talking about spiritual headship in the home and have already aired our great concern and dismay over the prevailing situation in many households regarding the same. How is it with you in your home? What is distressing is that one great manual and guide for establishing and carrying out spiritual headship is already RIGHT THERE IN MANY HOMES! It is Luther’s Small Catechism.

I say this with a little bit of trepidation knowing that there may be some who will say “That old thing? That’s the best you can do or suggest? Give me something that is new and fresh!” My retort would be to ask what “age” has to do with anything, especially when what is contained therein are timeless truths and unfading treasures? And as for always wanting something new and novel, you have my sympathy! The latest isn’t always the best… not by a long shot.

Luther’s Small Catechism has stood the test of time in regard to providing a simple, tried and true way for spiritual heads of households to carry out their God-given role. Take a look in this book at the recurring preface to the chief parts of our faith contained in the catechism. It reads, “As the head of the family should teach it in a simple way to his household.”

Indeed, the Small Catechism is still widely used in homes and in churches not because there is nothing else to use, but because there is NOTHING BETTER to use. The Small Catechism is used not because we are simply nostalgic or stuck in our ways, but rather because we stick with something that works… something that has proven to be a faithful companion throughout our earthly journey.

The Small Catechism has shown itself over and over again to be an indispensable tool for the head of the household to use in carrying out their God-given role. And by the way, this sacred role and responsibility is not “self proclaimed.” It does not come about and it is not carried out by you asserting the same, imposing the same, declaring the same. It does not come about by you taking a stand or making a power play. There are countless guys who have in many and various ways tried to do just that and they wonder why they crashed and burned. Duh!

Rather, the role of spiritual head of the household is undertaken in all humbleness and humility… in all selflessness and sacrificial living where Christ is our guide and He, the perfect example. Again, it is not a matter of asserting one’s self, but giving of one’s self. It is not a matter of stating (talk is cheap!) but of DOING.

It is all about you doing the work of a spiritual head which, interestingly enough, is primarily one of TEACHING. Now before you start freaking out over the aspect of being a “teacher,” this simply means you taking the time to share what you know, what you have learned. Think about it. You do that anyway as a husband with your wife… as a father with your children on a myriad of subjects.

“Ya Pastor, but you are talking about me teaching “religion”, teaching my family about God, His Word and His ways.” Well, if all of this evokes feelings of inadequacy, join the crowd! We all have that to some degree, but it does not mean we can shirk this responsibility. What it means is that you and I have to do something about it. To teach, we need to know. To know, we need to learn and keep on learning. We need to come to a better and greater understanding of God’s Word and of our Christian faith. And this requires us to be in the Word… to read it, study it on our own and with others in Bible class. It means reviewing again and again the fundamentals of our Christian faith and Lutheran doctrine.

At St Paul’s Lockport, I am always pleased by the number of men and women who attend Bible class. I am always pleased to see some of our long time members taking our Adult Information Class as a review and refresher course regarding what we believe as Lutherans. I am also pleased with the men who attend our monthly Brothers of John the Steadfast breakfast meetings where we study our Lutheran Confessions. All of these things help equip us to truly be spiritual heads of our households.

Getting back to Luther’s Small Catechism… guys… it is all there for you… the chief parts of our faith for you to simply read and review with your wife, with your family and others in your household. If the town and village folk of Luther’s time could teach the faith via the Small Catechism, so can you. Just take a short section each day, or several times a week at designated times. If you can schedule other things on a regular basis, you can schedule devotional time as well. If there is a will, there is a way! You will find a way. You will find the time, make the time.

Yes, reviewing the catechism with your family might be a little awkward at first because it may be new for you and for them. But that will be short lived as you get into a routine… as you “spiritually structure” your time at home with your family. In fact, we will discuss just that in my next post as I share with you another wonderful tool and resource for the head of the household. It is called the Treasury of Daily Prayer. We will talk about that and then the importance of Christian husbands and fathers “leading by example.” Stay tuned.

In Christ,
The Rev. Mark H. Hein
Pastor of St. Paul’s Lutheran Church
Lockport, Illinois






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  1. July 9th, 2009 at 00:20 | #1

    Huzzah, Pr. Hein! What is taught in confirmation class IS what the church will believe (and confess) in 20 years! This is most certainly true. One of THE great problems which has brought the Lutheran Church to her present crises is that catechesis was woefully lacking – in the home AND in the local congregation, in too many cases – for at least two (or three or more?) decades! May the Lord forgive those who think that doctrine is unimportant in our personal lives or in the church’s corporate life. Indeed, it IS true: “Doctrine IS life” b/c true, Biblical doctrine will bring us Christ for the forgiveness of sins . . . . May the Lord preserve us for a time of reformation so that His beloved bride will be gloriously dressed in the doctrines which are of Christ Himself!

    Thanks for an always timely post.

  2. Rev. Mark H. Hein
    July 9th, 2009 at 09:30 | #2

    Thanks Alan. As for the catechetical demise in the congregation, we will be discussing that as well as we move from spiritual headship in the home to headship in the church. What is so clear in regard to the spiritual situation we face is the importance of any and all grass roots efforts. If it is not happening in our synod and districts, we pray it will happen in our congregations. If it is not happening in our congregations, we pray it will happen in all our homes.

  3. Anonymous
    March 10th, 2013 at 21:34 | #3

    I would be curious as to why this whole article is focused on the Catechism being one of the greatest tools for headship while the Bible was only briefly mentioned. Is the Catechism not written based on this divine book. Bible is written by God, and the Catechism a man. It is a valuable resource but thefocus on it should not be greater than on the Bible.

  4. helen
    March 10th, 2013 at 22:09 | #4

    @Anonymous #3
    I would be curious as to why this whole article is focused on the Catechism being one of the greatest tools for headship while the Bible was only briefly mentioned.

    Nobody is suggesting that you don’t read and study the Bible. If you are already using it to conduct daily devotion in your household, all the better!

    The Catechisms were written to teach a summary of the faith. The explanations are backed up with Bible verses (which were memorized, until kids were “too smart” to memorize … or their parents were “too busy” to supervise its being done?)
    [Not too busy for seven kinds of ‘little league’ or dance classes, though]

    Learn your catechism. If it’s “in your head” nobody can take it away from you.

    [Times are getting more difficult for Christians and we haven’t seen anything yet in this country. Memorizing one of the Gospels might be a good idea. POW’s kept themselves alive by trading Bible verses. If you were in that situation, what would you have to contribute?]

  5. Rev. Mark H. Hein
    March 11th, 2013 at 09:31 | #5

    @Anonymous #3 “I would be curious as to why this whole article is focused on the Catechism being one of the greatest tools for headship while the Bible was only briefly mentioned.”

    Dear Anonymous, Helen answered your question/curiosity far better than I could have. Thank you Helen! And to be fair, this “whole article” is not focused on the Catechism. It states, in part “To teach, we need to know. To know, we need to learn and keep on learning. We need to come to a better and greater understanding of God’s Word and of our Christian faith. And this requires us to be in the Word… to read it, study it on our own and with others in Bible class.”

    In our Christian lives, Holy Scripture reigns supreme. It is, as you say, the Word of God which divinely reveals the essentials of our faith in Christ Jesus and actually creates and sustains in us a living faith, a saving faith. As such, it is our joy to daily read it, study it and “inwardly digest it.”

    Thanks be to God for his living, all-powerful Word. And thanks be to God for the Catechism which, though written by men, is a faithful exposition of our Christian faith and a wonderful tool… a wonderful “treasure” as I refer to it in this article… for us to use daily in reminding ourselves in Whom we believe and what we believe in, again, all based on Holy Scripture.

  6. John Rixe
    March 11th, 2013 at 09:50 | #6

    Great article, Pr Hein

    Another resource I find helpful:

    http://www.oocities.org/scottmann/Docs/praycat.html

  7. Rev. Mark H. Hein
    March 11th, 2013 at 11:36 | #7

    Thank you John. And yes, praying the chief parts of the Small Catechism is such a blessing and benefit.

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