“Frequently Asked Questions about an Infrequently Used Practice” (Confession), by Pr. Charles Henrickson

March 26th, 2009 Post by

(I’ve been doing this series on the Catechism, especially because we have a Book of Concord Reading Group that has just finished reading the Small and Large Catechisms. This coming Monday, March 30, we start the Augsburg Confession. Anyone in the St. Louis area who wants to join us, our class meets on Mondays, 9:30-11:00 a.m., at St. Matthew Lutheran Church in Bonne Terre, Missouri.)

“The Six Chief Parts of Lenten Catechesis”
The Ten Commandments
The Creed
The Lord’s Prayer
The Sacrament of Holy Baptism
Confession
The Sacrament of the Altar

“Frequently Asked Questions about an Infrequently Used Practice” (Confession)

Often when you go to a website or read a pamphlet about an organization, a company, a product, or a service, you will find a page called, “FAQs.” “FAQs” are “Frequently Asked Questions,” questions people usually have when they start to consider whatever it is that’s being talked about. The FAQ format is a helpful way to introduce a new or unfamiliar organization, product, etc.

Tonight I’m going to use the FAQ format for this message, because tonight I’m going to introduce you to a church practice that may be new or unfamiliar to you. It is the practice of Confession. Confession is new or unfamiliar to most Lutherans these days, even though it has been around for centuries. It is a church practice that the church doesn’t practice much anymore. So the first step is to re-introduce it, get people familiar with it again, and for that we’ll do some “FAQs”: “Frequently Asked Questions about an Infrequently Used Practice.”

We just read some questions and answers on Confession from the Small Catechism, and so now we’ll go on from there and raise some other questions as well. I’ll start by anticipating what may be your first question:

Pastor, how can you say that Confession is “unfamiliar” or “Infrequently Used”? Don’t we do Confession and Absolution at the start of the Divine Service?

Yes, we do. But the Confession at the start of the service is not the form or setting of Confession that we just read about in the Small Catechism. What we do at the start of the service is a group or “corporate” form of Confession and Absolution. What we read about in the Catechism and throughout the Lutheran writings is Individual Confession and Absolution, or, for short, “Private Confession.” What we do at the start of the service is a general confession of sins, not specifying any particular sins, and there is a general absolution, directed to the group as a whole. What we do in Private Confession usually involves confessing specific sins, and the pastor directs the absolution to that particular individual. It is this private, individual form of confession that the Catechism has in mind when it talks about “Confession.” With that, I will now anticipate your second question:

Pastor, I thought Lutherans got rid of Private Confession. Isn’t going to the pastor for Confession just a Catholic thing?

No, it’s not. Private Confession is a Lutheran thing, too. Luther did not get rid of Private Confession, he just reformed it, cleaned it up of its abuses. There were three abuses in particular that needed to be corrected. One was that Confession was forced, mandatory, done under coercion and compulsion. The second abuse was the enumeration of sins, that you had to come up with a complete listing of your sins, in detail, or else you could not be sure that you had confessed adequately. The third, and perhaps the worst, abuse was that, instead of putting the emphasis on the absolution, God’s free gift of forgiveness, the priest would give the penitent works of satisfaction to perform, works of penance, to offset his sins. These “three oppressive things,” as Luther called them, had corrupted the practice of Confession, had turned it from a gift into a torture. And therefore these were the abuses that the Lutherans corrected and reformed.

But Luther never got rid of Private Confession. Far from it. He strongly encouraged people to go to Confession. He even wrote “A Brief Exhortation to Confession,” in which he says such things as the following: “If you are poor and miserable, then go to Confession and make use of its healing medicine.” Or, “So we teach what a splendid, precious, and comforting thing Confession is.” Or again, “When I urge you to go to Confession, I am doing nothing else than urging you to be a Christian.”

Likewise, our Lutheran Confessions say the same thing. From the Augsburg Confession, Article XI: “Our churches teach that private Absolution should be retained in the churches.” Or from the Smalcald Articles, Article VIII: “Confession and Absolution should by no means be abolished in the Church.” Again, this is talking about Private Confession.

But Pastor, do I have to go to Private Confession to get forgiveness?

No, you don’t. You don’t “have to.” This is not a “hafta” question. This is a matter of “get to.” You “get to” go to Individual Confession and Absolution. It’s a gift! It’s the gospel! To be sure, God is rich in his grace, and he gives us his forgiveness in other ways as well. In Holy Baptism all your sins were washed away, and Baptism is a gift that keeps on giving. Your sins are forgiven also when the pastor preaches the gospel to you in the sermon, proclaiming the good news that Christ Jesus died on the cross for the sins of the whole world, taking them away, and that includes you and your sins. And of course you get forgiveness in the Sacrament of the Altar, when you receive the body and blood of Christ, given and shed for you for the forgiveness of sins. No doubt.

These are all glorious, wonderful means of grace, by which God delivers the forgiveness won by Christ on the cross to us. Holy Baptism, Holy Gospel, Holy Communion–all gifts of God, all means of grace, and each one has its own distinctive value and benefit and place in the life of the Christian. But then so does Holy Absolution. And we don’t want to set one gift of God against another. In other words, just because I get forgiveness in the sermon doesn’t mean I shouldn’t go to Communion. Just because I get forgiveness in Baptism doesn’t mean I shouldn’t go to Confession. No, God gives us all of these gifts, each one of them, for us to use and benefit from.

So what’s so special about Private Confession, Pastor?

For one thing, it helps us to be honest about ourselves. We readily say we are “poor miserable sinners,” but if we just keep it at that general level, we may try to excuse or rationalize sins we should be repenting of. The truth is, poor miserable sinners do poor miserable sins. And so examining our lives according to the Ten Commandments and coming to grips with our actual sins helps to keep us honest and accountable and to realize the depths of our sinfulness and our ongoing need for Christ’s forgiveness.

And that leads us to the most important benefit of Confession, and that is, the Absolution, the word of forgiveness. To realize that, yes, God knows my sins, how lousy of a sinner I am, and yet he forgives me–yes, me! I hear the forgiveness spoken into my ears, with my name on it! I feel the pastor’s hands on my head, Christ’s authorized representative loosing me from the burden of my sin and my guilt! That is what is so distinctive and refreshing about Individual Confession and Absolution: precisely that it is individual, dealing with my sins and directing God’s cleansing and forgiveness and care to me.

Luther puts it this way in his Brief Exhortation: “So any heart that feels its sinfulness and desires consolation has here a sure refuge when he hears God’s Word and makes the discovery that God through a human being looses and absolves him from his sins.” “[It] is a work that God does when he declares me free of my sin through His Word placed in the mouth of a man. It is this splendid, noble thing that makes Confession so lovely, so comforting.” Yes, the great treasure in Private Confession is the Absolution, spoken to you in particular.

But Pastor, I’ve never gone to Private Confession before. I’m scared. What can you say to reassure me?

Let me guess what’s scary or intimidating about it. Maybe you think you have to come up with some huge, awful sin–like robbing a bank or murdering someone–in order to go to Private Confession. No, ordinary, garden-variety sins are welcome any time. Maybe you can think of one or two that weigh on your mind. Lustful thoughts, harsh words, not treating your husband or wife with the love and care you know you should–that sort of thing. But even if you can’t come up with any sins in particular, or you’re not quite ready to speak about them, then just make a more general confession and the pastor will still speak God’s word of forgiveness to you.

But Pastor, if I told you my sins, my dirty awful sins, wouldn’t you think less of me? Wouldn’t it change our dynamic, our relationship, and you wouldn’t be my friend anymore?

No, I wouldn’t think less of you. If anything, I might be tempted to think more of you, that you took advantage of the opportunity to come to Confession. But then, don’t go and get a big head about it and say, “Hey, look at me! I went to Confession!” That would be pride, and then you’d have to come back to Confession for that!

No, nothing you say would shock me. I believe what the Bible says about our sinful nature, how the old Adam keeps on having evil desires and thoughts. And hey, your pastor knows what a sinner he is! So I won’t be shocked by your sins. In fact, I’m here to give you God’s forgiveness for them.

And what’s more, Private Confession is just that: Private. The sins you confess go nowhere else. I am under oath, solemn oath, never to divulge the sins confessed to me. I never have, and I never will. I don’t even divulge them to myself, in a sense. What I mean is, when you confess your sins to me, my ears become a graveyard. The sins die there. I don’t carry them around with me in my head and hold them against you. I can still be your friend. But the more important thing for you is that I be your pastor. God has assigned me here to take care of your soul. And that includes hearing the sins you confess, the sins that trouble your soul, and then forgiving them in the name of Christ.

So like I say, Pastor, I’ve never done Private Confession before. What would it look like? How would I go about it?

For that now, let’s turn in the Lutheran Service Book to page 292, and I’ll walk you through a form we can use for “Individual Confession and Absolution”. . . .

[Also found on pages 86-87 of this pdf file:]
http://lsb.cph.org/samples/LSB_Sampler.pdf

Pastor, when can I go to Private Confession?

There are some times listed in your bulletin for next week, when I will be here at church to hear your confession and pronounce forgiveness. But beyond that, I am available anytime you want to make confession and receive the absolution. Just let me know.

Pastor, tell me once again: Why should I go to Confession?

For the gospel. For the forgiveness of your sins. To receive the gift Jesus has for you: Holy Absolution, with your name on it!






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  1. Rev. James Kusko
    March 26th, 2009 at 13:31 | #1

    Pastor Henrickson:

    I agree that private confession is a forgotten practice, but I’m not sure whether to put the “blame” of the clergy or the laity. I’m more inclined to say that the clergy has let this lapse into disuse. Since I was ordained in 2006, I have routinely catechized and encourage the congregation take advantage of this practice as they feel necessary. In catechism, I told the catechumens that it might be worthwhile to require them to participate at least once before confirmation, but since that would make it law, I wouldn’t do it. But I repeatedly tell them that I am available whenever they desire to confess whatever is troubling them.

    I have actually had two adults come to me for confession since being called. While it places an immediate burden on me to never discuss the confession with anyone, (not with my wife, not with the elders, not with other clergy even in an anonymous setting) I can say that I do not keep notes and I cannot remember what was discussed in the confession I have heard to date.

    I would hope that this practice makes a comeback, but it will take continuous catechism and constant encouragement. It seems strange that this part of the catechism is taught, but quickly forgotten. And like any other part of our catechism, it will be forgotten unless the pastor continues to emphasize its importance.

    In a slightly different direction, I noticed that in your discussion of the catechism, you have not included the “Office of the Keys” which is typically discussed in connection with Confession/Absolution. In that regard, I would like to have a discussion on the “Office of the Keys” either here or in another thread. Specifically I would like to discuss “Who has the keys?” and “How many sets of keys are there?”

  2. March 26th, 2009 at 13:47 | #2

    “I agree that private confession is a forgotten practice, but I’m not sure whether to put the “blame” of the clergy or the laity.” (Pr. Kusko)

    I don’t think I blame anybody in this sermon, clergy or laity. I just recognize the current situation, without pinning blame or tracing how we got to this point.

    “I noticed that in your discussion of the catechism, you have not included the “Office of the Keys”. . . .” (Pr. Kusko)

    Really, the “Office of the Keys” questions were not original to that section of the Catechism. It was the questions about “Confession,” as well as the Short Form of Confession. And anyway, just focusing on Confession gave me enough to deal with for one sermon!

  3. Rev. James Kusko
    March 26th, 2009 at 14:04 | #3

    I didn’t mean to imply that you were placing blame on anyone. I used the word “blame” in quotes to suggest a cause and effect relationship. The question is why has the practice become so infrequently used? Anecdotally, in over 40 years of being Lutheran, I can recall only one pastor ever mentioning or encouraging the practice and that was my field-work pastor while in seminary.

  4. March 26th, 2009 at 14:10 | #4

    Pastor Henrickson – well done –

    were you doing work at sem (StL) back in 91 I am sure I had you for intro to OT?

    kel leary

  5. March 26th, 2009 at 16:26 | #5

    “Pastor Henrickson – well done – were you doing work at sem (StL) back in 91 I am sure I had you for intro to OT?” (Pr. Leary)

    Yes, I was, I was working on my STM in Exegetical Theology. I remember your name from class. I don’t remember your grade, though, so don’t worry.

  6. March 26th, 2009 at 16:38 | #6

    obviously I passed

    been out for nearly 15 years

    kel

  7. Pastor Tim Rossow
    March 26th, 2009 at 17:27 | #7

    What a great post and a great way to go about this with the congregation.

    I would offer this concerning pennace. It is done not to pay for the sin but to work off the punishment due for the sin. In the end it has the harmful effect – creating doubt about the complete work of Christ on the cross but technically speaking Rome teaches that Christ paid for sins but we pay for the punishment that is due for each sin.

    TR

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